Beyond Confidence: The Authentic Power of Self-Trust
Leading from Inner Certainty
I went to a great networking event this week, where we sat round table with other female leaders, to discuss specific topics, one of which was the notorious “Imposter Syndrome”. It created a vulnerable conversation about how this had shown up for each of us in our lives.
It was a reminder that we’re not alone in this.
The feeling isn’t unusual. Studies show that up to 82% of professionals, especially high-achieving women experience what’s known as impostor feelings. You know enough, you’ve earned your place, yet a quiet inner voice keeps whispering “not yet.” Despite the evidence of success these feelings persist and are present everyday for leaders.
What science is now teaching us is that self-trust, not surface-level confidence, is the foundation for genuine leadership presence. It’s what allows you to act with clarity, recover from mistakes, and lead authentically even when things are uncertain.
At Evolved Ethos, I help women re-learn this deeper trust: one grounded not in external validation, but in how your mind and body are designed to support you when you lead from within.
What’s Happening Beneath the Surface
Our minds and bodies are wired for self-protection. When you step into a bigger role or face pressure, your “inner alarm” (the part of your brain that senses risk) can confuse visibility with danger.
That’s why your heart races in meetings or why you replay conversations at night.
We can train our minds to identify what triggers self-doubt, and we can also train them to create calm and clarity in those moments. When you build small wins and treat yourself with kindness instead of criticism, your brain literally starts to associate challenge with capability.
This is what psychologists call self-efficacy — the belief that “I can handle this.” And when that belief is paired with self-trust, the sense that “I know who I am and what I stand for”, it produces something rare: authentic confidence.
Self-efficacy is the cornerstone of behavioural psychology linking belief to performance. Leaders with high self-efficacy show greater resilience, adaptability, and authentic behaviour. They don’t need to “fake it”; they’ve built internal proof through mastery experiences.
Self-trust integrates both efficacy and compassion: it’s believing not only that you can, but that you’re worthy to try.
Self-compassion acts as a stabilising force; it reduces perfectionism, shame, and impostor feelings (Wei et al., 2020; Neff, 2003). This allows leaders to remain aligned with their values, the very definition of authenticity.
Leading with Inner Certainty
A 2021 Frontiers in Psychology study found that leaders with high self-awareness and self-leadership (forms of self-trust) indirectly boost their teams’ confidence and performance through role-modelled authenticity.
Authentic leadership flows when self-trust is aligned with self-efficacy, the brain enables action, and the belief supports behaviour, leading to genuine authenticity.
Leadership insight: Individuals who lead from inner certainty engage systems that support coherence between identity, values, and behaviour, creating authenticity that others can sense.
Take Alisha, a manager in energy. She feared conflict, being disliked, and was not feeling confident directing her team, worrying that they would think she was micro-managing. Through coaching, she learned to focus on creating consistent rituals and structure for her team, and by asking herself: “What matters most to me and my team right now?”
That simple shift changed everything. Her team felt more supported and empowered; they were solving problems together and appreciating the visibility they all gained. Her ideas landed with more authority. Her team began taking more accountability because her presence gave them permission to.
This is what happens when we lead from inner certainty. Leaders don’t perform leadership; they embody it.
Three Everyday Practices to Build Self-Trust
Mastery Moments – Self-Efficacy in Action
Choose one meaningful, achievable action each week that stretches your comfort zone.
Reflect on the effort, not the outcome, every time you follow through, your mind builds evidence: “I can.”
Science link: Repeated mastery experiences build authentic confidence (Bandura).
The Self-Kindness Pause (Self-Compassion Integration)
When doubt arises, name it, breathe, and respond as you would to a trusted colleague.
Science link: Self-compassion moderates’ impostor-related distress (Wei et al., 2020).
Values Alignment Map (Authenticity Anchor)
Write three core values you want your leadership to express.
Before key decisions, pause and ask: “Does this choice align with those values?”
Authenticity emerges when actions mirror internal values.
Why This Matters Now
Self-trust changes how women lead. When we stop chasing confidence and start embodying authenticity, we create workplaces that are calmer, braver, and more human.
Research shows that leaders who are anchored in their values foster more engagement, innovation, and wellbeing in their teams. When you are steady inside, people feel it around you.
The future of leadership isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about having the inner certainty to navigate when you don’t.
As Brené Brown reminds us: “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.”
If you paused right now and asked yourself, “What would self-trust do next?”, what answer would you hear?
Take the Next Step
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With Gratitude,